Monday, March 07, 2005

Tis' the Season

I found out today that my ex-boyfriend (you know, the one that's taken me just about a full year to finally get over) is getting married this summer. What? We haven't even been broken up a full year just yet - albeit one week away from being a year - but not a full year yet! So, dating me, leading me on, lying to me, and supposedly being "in love" with me for almost 2 years didn't lead to marriage, yet he can meet someone else, fall in love, and ask to marry her in less than a year?! Shouldn't there be some sort of ethical law against it - kind of like a mourning period - where if your relationship lasted more than a year, that you aren't allowed to ask someone else to marry you unless you've been broken up with your ex for at least a year? Come on! I mean, I don't want it to sound like I wish it were me, because for the first time in 11 months, I can truly honestly say that I'm glad that it's not me. And I'm glad that he's found someone to marry because the Lord knows that's not an easy thing to do. I guess I just feel somehow disrepected in a weird sort of way.

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